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If you want to achieve a loving relationship with someone, nothing is more important than self-esteem -- in you and in the other person...

We all want a happy ending but if you're anything like me then intimate relationships tend to trip you up and probably more so when your self-esteem has taken a knock - so let me introduce you to my service which has evolved from imitating movie characters behaviors so I could deal with difficult relationships which in turn raised the self-esteem I thought I already had. Phew, that was a mouthful but it's true and I what I realized that by acting differently I could cope better so that eventually I felt strong enough to remove myself from unsuitable encounters.  As individuals we all want different things from a connection, for me it was simple I wanted to experience something honest, equal and affectionate and I've achieved this to a degree but the best thing about proving to yourself that you're an okay kind of person is that you gain the skills to avoid or deal with strained, toxic, questioning one's sanity encounters so you create the space to feel nourished in the right company or even in your own.  
So what's your story, does it involve feeling puzzled as to why you don't get what you want out of connections? Well s
ometimes it's good to take a step back and see your behaviors projected back to you through the safe space of viewing movies because they can help you see what's really happening and what you need to do about it. Maybe you just need to tweak your approach or maybe you need to completely overhaul who you're attracted to and have a little plan in place that will eventually have you hopping for joy.

So are you ready to have a go yourself?  
I'm not going to pretend that it will be easy but if you don't want the worry and anguish that being around some people can bring then it's an inevitable step so you can go forward into fulfilling encounters with a renewed sense of self-worth which will have also have a positive effect on other areas of your life.
I offer ways to dip your toe in before you go in head first which will allow you to build up your self-esteem and assertiveness skills so that you can make those all important decisions that affect your love life and in reality really do have an impact on your life as a whole - so take a look around and don't hesitate to contact me if you have any questions.